The thing I did to cause my marriage to break down

Hello, lovelies! Today I’m sharing one of the biggest factors that led to my marriage breakdown. This isn’t about blaming my ex, but more about understanding my role and the lessons learned.

My story

When I met my first husband, I was in a bad place emotionally and mentally. I had just moved to a new state to be with my family, struggled to find work, and felt very insecure. He came into my life when I was vulnerable, and I saw him as my lifesaver.

However, over time, I realised that my insecurities played a significant role in our relationship dynamics. I became bossy and controlling, not in the sense of controlling him, but in taking charge of everything. I planned, did, and gave endlessly, embodying a very masculine energy.

This dynamic led to constant conflict because we both were in our masculine energy, causing us to butt heads. Despite trying to leave a couple of years into the marriage, I stayed, feeling surprised that he wanted me to stay. No one knew what I was going through.

Our relationship was filled with discord because of the imbalance in our energies. My need to control and do everything meant I wasn’t in a receptive, feminine state. This pattern repeated in my second marriage, where I again took on the masculine role, leading to resentment and eventually another breakup.

After two failed marriages, I realized I needed to change. I discovered a relationship coach who explained the masculine and feminine dynamics in relationships. Her insights were a revelation. I learned that I had been mothering my partners, turning them off, and not allowing them to step into their masculine roles.

I began practising being in my feminine, leaning back, and allowing myself to receive. It wasn’t easy, but I noticed a shift. For instance, when my partner offered to prepare dinner, I resisted the urge to remind him and let go of control. To my surprise, he followed through, and we had a lovely dinner.

This experience taught me the importance of balance and the power of being in my feminine. By the time I met my current partner, Laurie, I was confident, happy, and secure. Our relationship thrived because I allowed myself to receive and appreciated his efforts.

If you find yourself in a similar situation, struggling with relationship dynamics, remember that it’s essential to balance your energy. Focus on your value, let go of control, and allow your partner to step up.

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