Self love is a problem for many of my clients, because a lack of self love ties in with limiting beliefs around their worthiness of having all that they desire. If they’re not feeling worthy of their desires, this is clearly going to create a block for them…
During my younger years I didn’t like myself very much. In fact, I spoke to myself in the most horrendous ways at times, beating myself up for the mistakes I’d made, or due to the fact I was tolerating bad treatment from my significant other. If I’d spoken to a friend this way, we would not have been friends for long!
Learning to love myself again was a slow journey, but I finally got there, and until recently I thought I’d cleared all of my limiting beliefs around my worthiness to attract abundance, but alas I had not! So I loved myself on the outside, but I still had some work to do on the inside…!
I spent quite a bit of time earlier this year, releasing the energy blocks surrounding my limiting beliefs, before I was finally able to let them go. I was amazed to uncover traumas which were 30+ years old! Given how light I feel now, I am amazed that I was carrying such a heavy load for so many years!
You’re probably wondering what these limiting beliefs were, so I’ll list a few of them here:
- I did not deserve to be happy
- I did not deserve to have abundance
- It was not safe to be successful
- I couldn’t have what I want
- I wasn’t able to have both love and money
Once I had uncovered my limiting beliefs , one by one I worked to clear them out, just as I would with a client. Since releasing the old traumas and clearing these limiting beliefs, my life has improved in the most incredible way! This has been from both a personal perspective as well as an abundance perspective, and in the end, all it came down to was my old lack of self love that I was holding on to on a subconscious level.
If you love yourself, you feel worthy. If you feel worthy, you believe you can have. If you believe you can have, you will have.
See how that works out? VERY interesting!
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