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Dating pitfalls – How to get around them

Michelle Douglas Chief Pattern Disruptor · 9 April 2023 · Leave a Comment

In 2010 my second marriage died a painful death, and I found myself single again, wondering what on earth I had been doing so wrong to find myself in this place yet again!

The idea of getting out there and dating again filled me with dread, but the prospect of living my life alone until I died, didn’t sit well with me either!

Looking back, I wish I’d known then what I know now, because I would have avoided many of the pitfalls of dating, but instead I had to do it the long way, as many women sadly have to!

What’s going on with you?

If you’ve experienced divorce or a major breakup, you’re probably feeling the same way that I did. Maybe youv’e already started to put yourself out there, but you’re finding that the men you’re meeting are all wrong!

You may have tried online dating, you’ve done tonnes of inner work, and maybe you’ve worked with a therapist or a coach, but still you keep attracting duds – or no men at all!

Why is this happening?

Is there something wrong with you? Or is it that there are just no decent men out there?

Well… it’s most likely you! Sorry about that!

What you’re experiencing in your life right now is congruent with where you’re at vibrationally. So if you’re attracting dud dates or crickets, it’s because that’s what you’re aligned to.

Every choice and action you’ve ever made or taken, has contributed to your current vibration, and this is why you’re not liking what you see – it’s because your past choices and actions haven’t been in alignment with who you are.

How to create an experience that you desire

So you now know why you’re not experiencing something that you want (the amazing relationship), and now I’m thinking you want to know how to shift that, right?

In order to manifest the relationship that you want, you must first vibrationally align to it.

And how you align with what you want is through your choices and actions – as long as they are Soul-aligned choice and actions!

What is a Soul-aligned choice?

When you gain an understanding of who you are at Soul-level, you will learn of your gifts, your strengths, how you manifest, and lots more. This is your Blueprint Once you have this information, you are able to test proposed choices against this Blueprint so that you can make sure it’s Soul-aligned BEFORE you take action!

What a time-saver huh??

What’s essential when dealing with the frustrations of dating

There are a number of essential qualities that you must bring to the table when you work with me and when you first enter the dating world, if you’re going to want positive results.

This quality is that you must be prepared to take 100% ownership of where you’re at right now, otherwise you have little hope of experiencing the positive changes you desire.

When you’re blaming your ex for your crappy situation, you are literally handing him all of your power, leaving you powerless to make the changes you need to make.

On the other hand, when you take responsibility for where you’re at, you now have the power to create powerful and lasting change!

What next?

If you’re sick of attempting to manifest love the hard and slow way and you really want to get things right this time, then I can help.

Right now I have a little freebie on offer that will provide you with the fundamentals of manifesting love, and I’m pretty sure you’re going to find it enlightening, to say the least!

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  1. How to Reignite Your Love Life When You’re Burnt Out on Bad Dates
  2. A tale of a date I went on over 20 years ago
  3. How to Manifest Love by Breaking Energetic Blocks Without Breaking Your Brain
  4. How to Get into Vibrational Alignment with Love (Without Accidentally Manifesting More Situationships)

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Same old patterns? Maybe they’re VERY old. 😂

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