Why aren’t I manifesting what I want?

Are you struggling to manifest what you want? You could have financial troubles, your job sucks, your relationship is a mess, or your health may be suffering (or a number of other things!).

You know exactly what you want, and maybe you’ve been reciting affirmations and doing visualisations daily, but your situation still kind of sucks!

Why is this happening?

The Akashic Records hold the answer to this, and thankfully there’s an Akashic Records solution which goes with it! But more on that later… We first need to understand why this is happening…

The reason why you’re not manifesting what you want is because your Akashic Records is holding the energy of two (or more) conflicting possibilities.

You want what you want, but at the same time, you want a backup plan for “just in case” it doesn’t work out.

Having the backup plan is better than nothing, even though it’s not what you want. But it’s the energy you’re putting toward that backup plan which is creating the conflict, along with your inability to manifest what you want.

The backup plan, from your perspective, is a form of safety and security, so you have something else to fall back on. 

Let me give you an example…

Let’s say you’re in a job you hate. You also know what type of job you would love to have.

You spend your days, weeks months, or even years, dreading going to work, feeling miserable while you’re at work, and stressing about the following work day as you eat your dinner each night.

Meanwhile you’re also reading the job ads for the types of jobs you would like to do, but you’re not doing much beyond that. 

It’s like you have your foot on the accelerator and the brake at the same time, which means you’re not going anywhere fast!

Why are you doing this?

You want safety and security, so although you don’t like your job, it feels “safe” for you. And as long as you continue to work there, the income will keep flowing in, so you stay and you don’t make any choices which will move you out of this situation. 

You’re doing this because applying for another job means stepping out of our comfort zone, especially if you’ve been working at the same place for a long time. It comes with a whole lot of uncertainty and you’re not quite sure that you will even like the change! 

So you will stay where you are, and you will be miserable in a job you don’t want, because it’s your financial security blanket. 

What happens when you do this?

When you stay in situations you don’t want, you invest energy into it. This could be a job you don’t like, a relationship which isn’t serving you, or continuing to eat junk when you want to lose weight. 

All of this effort is creating possibilities in your Akashic Records, all of which do not align with what you want. 

The Akashic Records and possible future pathways

The Akashic Records holds all of our possible future pathways, from the perspective of the present moment. 

These pathways are based on past choices, the consequences of those choices, and all possible future outcomes possible, which will be based on future choices that you may make. 

When you continue to invest in the job you don’t like, the “sucky” relationship, or our terrible eating habits, you are creating a set of possible futures which align to the choices you make in each area. 

But the problem is that you don’t WANT those “sucky” possibilities! you want the good stuff! The stuff that feels good to you! The stuff that makes our heart sing! 

So what you have now are two incongruent pathways:

1. One which aligns with what you want
2. One which does NOT align with what you want

These two pathways are not compatible with each other energetically, so like I said above, it’s like having one foot on the accelerator and the other on the brake, at the same time. You’re not going anywhere!

How you’re creating every day

When you make choices which align with what you DO NOT want, you are energising it – you’re sending it more energy, and basically saying to the Universe, “More of this please!”.

When you make choices which align with what you DO want, you are energising it – you’re sending it more energy, and basically saying to the Universe, “More of this please!”.

Making choices which align with what you do not want while wishing you had something else, creates confusion by sending mixed signals to the Universe.

The process of manifesting what you want ends up slowing or stopping completely, when you do this. 

What happens when my choices align with what I want?

When you’re making choices which align to what you DO want, you will also attract ideas, inspiration and little nudges which push you toward what you actually want.

If you’re wanting a new job and you make choices and take action such as sending out your CV, you apply for jobs, you attend networking events and basically put yourself out there in the industry you’re interested in working in, then a key person may “coincidentally” cross your path, you may also hear of a job opening, or an offer of a promotion may come up where you currently work. 

Whatever it is, it will be more aligned with what you DO want, because you’re making choices which also align!

more on Possible futures

You can create a whole series of possible futures through your choices, so it’s important that they all align with what you actually want, because the more energy you have flowing toward conflicting possible futures, the more confusion you’re going to experience. 

This can also lead to “stuckness”. You’re so confused that you completely stop, holding onto and investing in the situation you don’t want, and therefore creating even more disillusionment and unhappiness. 

How do I fix this so I can start manifesting what I want?

As mentioned above, you do this to ourselves by energising what you don’t want through our choices and actions!

So to fix this, you need to do the following:

Shut down or eliminate undesirable possible futures

If you shut down or eliminate the possible futures that you do not want, then they will no longer be possible! 

This is not to say that you hand over your resignation to your boss right away – it’s important to be responsible here!

If you’re in a job you hate, like I mentioned above, start looking around to see what’s happening in your desired industry. Attend networking events. Apply for other roles internally if they align. 

Or you could start or build up your own business on the side, slowly transitioning out of full time work over time, until you’re able to resign and allow your business income to take over. This is just one possibility of many that you could come up with! 

Where are you investing your energy?

Ask yourself this: “Am I investing my energy into something I really want, or am I investing in something I do NOT want?”

Put your energy into possibilities you DO want

In order to create more possibilities that you DO want, you must give them energy. 

How do you give them energy?

Through your choices!

Again ask yourself this as you make these choices: “Am I investing my energy into something I really want, or am I investing in something I do NOT want?”

When you put your energy into what you want, you are creating possibilities which align perfectly with what you want!

The possibilities you are creating will align with each other, and they will also be aligned with your desired intentions, which of course helps you to move toward manifesting what you want!

Soul Realignment

In a Soul Realignment reading, I access the Akashic Records in order to identify any negative patterns you may be running which will be dictating a number of “negative” choices you could be making unconsciously.

The Akashic Records will also give you some clarity about why you have been making choices which do not align with what you want to manifest. This gives you a great place to start the process toward making new choices which DO align with what you want!

If you’d like to learn more about Soul Realignment or you’d like to have a chat, please visit the Soul Realignment page, or reach out for a chat!