What is pre-birth planning and what does it entail?

Until a few years ago, I had no idea that pre-birth planning was even a thing, but it seems it’s been a thing for all of us… Since forever!

To summarise, pre-birth planning is a process which happens before you reincarnate into your next life. During this planning process it is decided which lessons you wish to learn or anything else you’d like to experience or work on in the upcoming life. 

When taken into between lives regressions, the client will often speak of a “meeting” between your soul, your soul family and your spirit guides, to work out the details, and everybody who’s involved (including the soul family that will come in to help you or even test you), will agree that this is the right way forward. 

The lessons

For example, you may wish to learn about forgiveness in your next life, so a member of your soul family volunteers to be your overbearing mother who treats you badly. It is then up to you to reach a point of forgiveness for the way your mother treated you.

You may get there in a number of ways, and another soul family member may be required to come in and help you with the same lesson but in a slightly different way. So you may endure a toxic relationship with your mother, only to eventually marry somebody who’s just like her so you can go through the whole process again!

If you manage to find forgiveness for those who have “done you wrong” (is it really wrong, or have they lovingly agreed to come into this life at a low vibration in order to help you grow?), then you will not need to repeat that lesson again – it’s done!

If you do not achieve what you wished to achieve, then you may plan to come back in a future life to give things another try. 

Some people choose to experience other significant challenges in their next life, in order to “balance things out” from previous lives. Some might refer to this as “karma”.

These challenges may include a physical disability, it could be to experience the loss of a loved family member at a young age, or it could be to grow up in poverty, when in previous lives you had been extremely wealthy. This is to help you understand both sides of this equation. 

Tragic events

This then takes me to tragic events….

I was reading a book written by Allison DuBois, a well-known medium, and she talked about a woman who had been shot during a 2008 terrorist attack in Mumbai. 

Before being told it wasn’t her time and that she needed to return to her body, this woman experienced nothing short of incredible! 

She had technically died and had left her body, and was amazed to see the soul version of both the victims and the terrorists, all congratulating and high fiving each other for a job well done! It seems this event had been planned prior to their physical birth, and they were all happy it turned out as it was supposed to! WHAT?!

I guess I’d have to be speaking to the souls themselves to find out what was behind this plan, but none of the souls of the victims were unhappy about what had happened. 

When mulling over this, I wondered if maybe they had agreements with the souls of their family members who were wishing to learn the lesson of losing a family member at a young age? And maybe there was a lesson for the collective about the terrible impacts of such events? 

I also recall reading a book by Robert Schwartz called “Your Soul’s Plan – The real meaning of the life you planned before you were born”. In his book he talks about a young woman who chose to be the victim of a bomb attack! This again was planned, and all of the souls involved in this planning, along with their families, were going to benefit from this event in some way. I absolutely recommend you get your hands on this book!

What’s next?

As you can see, we should never take such events at face value. More often than not there’s going to be an underlying reason for the event, even if tragic, that have happened to the benefit of those involved, and possibly of those around them. 

If pre-birth planning interests you, here’s what you can do:

1. Book in for a Past Life Regression (if you’ve never had one before); or
2. Book in for a Between Lives Regression (you must have undergone a past life regression previously, to ensure your trance state is deep enough to experience this process); or
3. If you’re not sure about either, visit the Soul Regression Therapy page to learn more.