How a Soul Mate contract can lead to self sabotage in love

Hello, everyone! It’s Magnificent Monday, and today we’re diving into a fascinating yet complex topic: how a soul mate contract can lead to self-sabotage in love. This is a subject I’ve touched on before, but given my current focus on relationships and the prevalence of this issue among my clients, it’s worth revisiting.

What is a Soul Mate Contract?

A soul mate contract is a promise made between two souls in a past life. This contract often involves a commitment to love each other forever or to wait for each other indefinitely. Typically, these promises are made under emotional or dramatic circumstances, such as one partner dying before the other, making the surviving partner vow to wait eternally.

The Impact of Soul Mate Contracts

While the concept of a soul mate contract sounds romantic, it can have unintended consequences in subsequent lifetimes. For many of my clients, these contracts manifest as subconscious barriers that prevent them from fully engaging in new relationships. Here’s how:

1. Unrequited Promises: In some cases, one person might have made a promise to wait for someone who did not reciprocate those feelings. This unfulfilled promise can linger across lifetimes, causing the individual to subconsciously hold out for someone who isn’t coming back.
2. Unavailable Partners: A common pattern I see is women choosing partners who are unavailable—emotionally, physically, or otherwise. This could mean having affairs with married men or entering relationships with partners who are not fully committed.
3. Self-Sabotage in Relationships: Even when in a relationship, these women may find themselves self-sabotaging, picking fights, or finding faults with their partners. This behaviour stems from the subconscious belief that their current partner isn’t their true soul mate.

The Waiting Game

One of the most significant impacts of a soulmate contract is the subconscious waiting game. Women affected by these contracts often choose relationships they know won’t last. This way, they can keep their options open for their supposed soul mate to arrive, despite this soul mate not existing in the current lifetime.

Breaking the Cycle

Identifying and breaking free from the constraints of a soulmate contract can be liberating. Here are steps that can help:

1. Acknowledgment: Recognising that a soulmate contract exists is the first step, and one of the easiest ways to determine if one is in place, is through an Akashic Records reading or similar (included in the Align With Love program, of course!). Understanding that this promise is affecting current relationships can be eye-opening.
2. Clearing the Contract: Through the Akashic records, these contracts can be identified and cleared. This process involves releasing the old promise and freeing the individual from its subconscious hold.
3. Rewriting Patterns: It’s essential to work on changing the patterns of behaviour that have developed due to the soulmate contract. This is something we address during the Align With Love program, where you’ll be guided to actively engage in healthier relationship dynamics.

Moving Forward

Ultimately, the goal is to help women move on from their past life promises and create a fulfilling love story in their current lifetime. By clearing these contracts and changing their patterns, they can open themselves up to genuine, healthy relationships.

I hope this insight into soul mate contracts and their impact on love and relationships has been enlightening. If you feel like you might be affected by such a contract, consider joining the Align With Love program, and start a new chapter in your love life.

Have a magnificent Monday!

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