Finding Love: How to Vibrationally Align with Your Ideal Partner

The key to finding love is to vibrationally align with your ideal partner, and today we’re going to work through some things you can do to create that vibrational alignment.

About Vibrational Alignment

The people, the situations, and the circumstances in your life are there because you’re currently in vibrational alignment with all of them. If you weren’t vibrationally aligned to those things, they wouldn’t be in your physical experience.

Your thoughts and beliefs, your emotions and your feelings, and your actions all contribute to your vibrational alignment, so it goes without saying that every thought you’ve had, every emotion or feeling you’ve felt, and every action you have taken, has brought you to where you are today.

So if you’re single (and you don’t want to be) or your current relationship is rocky, the only thing you can do to change that is to shift your vibration so it aligns with having the relationship you desire.

How you do that is to change your thoughts and beliefs, to change your emotions and your feelings, and to take different actions.

Sounds simple, doesn’t it? If only!

How to vibrationally align with finding love with the ideal partner

To vibrationally align with finding love with the ideal partner, you have a few changes to make, and I’ll break each one down and offer you a high-level suggestion for each.

1. Think different thoughts: Think about what you WANT, rather than about what you don’t want. Decide what you want your future relationship to be like, and write it down, in present tense, as though it has already happened. Visualise a scene in the future, where he’s already in your life.
2. Feel how it would feel to have what you want in your reality, while you’re thinking about this desired reality. How will it feel once Mr Right has swept you off your feet? Feel those feelings, smell his cologne, feel his warm embrace!
3. Take an action that’s in the general direction of your desire. Why I’m suggesting your action only needs to be in the “general direction” of your desire, is because you may not have a clue what to do! More on this aspect in the next section as it’s going to need more than a paragraph!

There are only three elements that must be in place before you can vibrationally align with finding love, and the key is to be consistent. Without consistency, you will slip back into old habits, worrying about what’s wrong, feeling stressed, and taking misaligned actions.

With this consistency on the “good stuff”, you will begin to shift vibrationally, and you will begin to see these shifts in your physical reality. Sometimes, a single new action will bring about a new experience within minutes or even seconds! Mostly, these shifts will begin to take shape within 24 hours, so it’s important to keep your eyes open!

More on taking action to create vibrational alignment

I wanted to dedicate a whole section to this aspect of vibrationally aligning with your ideal partner, because it’s so important.

As I mentioned before, the action to take only needs to be in the general direction of your desire. I don’t want you thinking you need to take a massive number of actions – just small things, to help you on your way.

Because we are all wired to create in different ways, I can’t go too specific here, and some of what I mention here may not work for you. The only way to work through a tailored bunch of actions is to work with me 1:1 in my upcoming relationship program, that I’ll cover in future posts.

For now, here’s a bunch of actions you could take, and then see what happens!

If you’re single:

• Set up an online profile.
• Socialise with your friends more (aka go outside!!).
• Start taking better care of your mind, body and spirit if you’ve neglected any of these lately.
• Clear a space in your wardrobe or closet, for when “Mr Right” comes to stay!
• Sleep on one side of the bed – so your future ideal partner has somewhere to stay.

If you’re in a relationship

• Start taking better care of your mind, body and spirit if you’ve neglected any of these lately.
• Spend 5 minutes every day, writing down all of the things you love about your man. Throughout the day, look for new things to add to your list the following day.
• If you’re an overdoer, it’s time to stop. If stopping feels too hard, pull back a little, and keep pulling back slowly.
• Pretend that your man has done something really loving for you, and when interacting with him, make sure you’re in that energy, such as gratitude.
• Show your man some appreciation – men love that! 😉

What next?

To vibrationally align with your partner (or having the partner you desire), there are some changes you need to make. As I mentioned earlier, I’m in the process of creating a course that focuses solely on Love and Relationships.

That’s going to take some time to create though, so to get started on your journey to finding love and vibrationally aligning with the man of your dreams, I have a free course on offer. Click the button below to learn more!